The answer.

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Day in and day out we ask ourselves so many questions. Stupid ones such as, “I hope there is nothing in my teeth.” or “I wonder if he can smell my silent fart.” I don’t have the answer for the first one because I can’t see you, but yes he can smell your silent deadly farts.

Then there’s the serious questions. “Will he love me if I don’t love myself? Will she love me if I don’t love myself? Will I ever find true love if I don’t love myself?” The answer is no. Sad right? This is the honest truth. No one will love you if you don’t learn to love yourself first. If you don’t love yourself, how will you be able to show and express that to someone else? Even google knows this. Everyone knows this. If you don’t know this then you need to come out of your shell. You will probably ask, “what gives her the rights to say this to me. Who does she think she is? I bet she is a know it all stuck up just trying to make money. Pfttt” . Honestly I just want to share my experiences and what I have gone through with you and with as many as I can out there hoping that one day someone will read my words and a light bulb will go off in their head and things will be different. They will look at themselves differently, in a way that will change their life into what they have always wanted.

I do not, I repeat I do not have it all figured out. I’ve learned that, if you don’t learn  from your mistakes and change as you grow , it will be difficult for you to emotionally, physically, and mentally. You need to learn to do no harm to yourself before you can show that to others. You should want to love yourself.  In my opinion you should need, not want, to love yourself. The difference between need and want is, want is something you can live without and need is something you can’t live without.

I can show you how to achieve that little by little, day by day. I will share my experiences that led me to self love, self respect,knowing my self worth and forgiving myself. I’ve been told the key to making this work is consistency. Yes it is true **nodding head** I know it’s going to be hard but you have to keep at it if you want it. My emotions, my thoughts, my life when it crumbled, when I turned into someone I wasn’t proud of and the very moment that I came into realization that I will not let anyone or anything make me feel  any less than what I am. VERY long story but it boiled down to this; I felt life had no meaning until I started to take care of myself first. So remember this, be consistence and ultimately love yourself first then you will get to your happy ending, but I’ll let you in on a little secret, its not a happy ending, its only the beginning of your legacy full of nothing but the best that you yearn for.  Okay?

 

 

******STAY TUNNED AND KEEP AN EYE OUT FOR MY BOOK WITH THE INSIGHTS TO MY LIFE AND HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE WITH MY ISSUES. YES I SAID ISSUES AND YES I NEEDED TISSUES! I WILL BE HANDING YOU TISSUES SO DON’T WORRY, I GOT YOU*****

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