Challenge #2, you ready for this?

I challenge you to say hello to strangers everyday for a month. Write down your experiences. Pay attention to how you are and how they are. Why ?

When I was in school for pharmacy technician my communication teacher gave us this lesson. This was actually the year that I started to change and grow up.

I was a very shy, quiet person. I kept to myself. I was scared of engaging with people. I would avoid encounters.

This assignment really changed me. At first it was scary and hard to find the courage to say hi to strangers. It was uncomfortable at first. It felt good after the hello. Just thinking about it, anticipating it made it scary for me.

After a couple of days of doing it, it came smoothly to me. I said hi with a smile on my face and if they say hi back I smile with my teeth. Some will even ask how I am and I would of course ask back. It became easy to where it came naturally.

As I walk pass the hall I’ll say hi to the people that walks by. I may not know them but it’s nice to let people know that I know they exist.

You can say life is like this. Its like starting a new job. Because you are new, you drag your feet to work, worried about the mistakes you will make. As time goes by, you learn from your mistakes and you get better. It becomes easy and your no longer stressing having nightmares.

It’s like your first time going to the gym. You’re worried, you’re scared, you’re nervous, your intimidated. But once you go in and you start your routine it gives you the push for momentum. You go from one work out to another and then you go home. You Keep doing it and surprisingly it gets better. You get stronger, you feel better, you look healthier, you feel healthier.

That’s the thing. Things are hard at first, but once you keep going at it, it gets easier; consistency and persistency. They go hand in hand.

If you want something; a change in lifestyle, a girl or guy, a job , a career change, and whatever you want. You have to be willing to be consistent and be persistent.

If you don’t meet your goal today, try tomorrow. If you fail today, get up and try again. If they say no, work harder and try again.

Looking forward,

Kay

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.p.s. Thank you Mrs.Cooper I ♥️ you

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I Challenge You To This

One of my favorite memory growing up was volunteering in elementary school. Why would anyone volunteer during their summer vacation? Well you see, the school that I attended had their grades rotate summer vacation. I was a 4th grader that year. The reason I volunteered during my summer was because of a crush. Yes, I signed my vacation away because I wanted to see my crush and because we rotate summer vacation that made it possible for me to see him. Now that I think about it, it was so silly. What did you expect? That’s not what was memorable, no, it was what I discovered that summer.

My family and I moved to the United States when I was 6 years old. I started school in first grade. I didn’t get to experience kindergarten like every other kid. I don’t know the order of the rainbow. I still don’t do this day. I just color it the way I want it.  The first time when I was introduced to kindergarten was when I volunteered that summer. I found out that they had this thing as, ” snack time”. 

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I found it so amazing! Who came up with this idea? Forget the crush, because I only  saw a glimpse of him in the morning. I loved snack time every day. That was the best summer I had volunteering.

Thinking back that was when I was introduced to Red Vines. Red Vines is different from Liquorice. I am sorry but Red Vines is better.

It’s sad how time flies so fast. When we were younger we wanted to grow up fast. Now that were older, we wish we could slow time down and stay young. Well at least that’s what I think for myself. It’s almost the end of 2018 already and I feel as if it flew by too fast. I did not make enough memorable memories. I wish I could of done more and given more, spend more time with the ones I love and take more pictures; not selfies.

Even when we know that we take time for granted, we still do it. We get caught up in life and everything else. We forget about how precious time is until it’s too late, until the end of the year. I am guilty of that.

Definitely acknowledge that fact and better yourself from it. I will. I’ll spend more of my time adding value to my life. I will smile more. I will laugh more. I will take more pictures that are not selfie! I will blog more. It’s easy to be lazy. It’s a challenge to blog every day.

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Whats one of your favorite memory? Do you take time for granted too even when you try not to? It’s okay because we are human and we are constantly learning and making mistakes. What will you do to add more value to your life? What are you not doing enough that you will be doing more of? I challenge you to challenge yourself to end your 2018 more valuable than before. Okay?~

Looking forward,

FearlessKay 

 

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Sunday Thought

I honestly think I would be happy with working a 8 hour shift for the rest of my life while aiming for retirement of course. There is nothing wrong with that thought.

Don’t get me wrong. I have big dreams and big goals. I want to be successful in business. I want to be, not to sound snobby or anything but, rich. Who doesn’t ? Money makes the world go round. Money is a currency that is forever moving and never stays in one spot for too long. That’s why they say money comes and goes like the river flow. I think that’s how it goes. You need money to buy food which is essential to survive. You money to buy gas which is also essential to if you need to drive to work to earn money to buy food for you and your family.

I see people having that amount of money to live comfortably and I too would like that.

But if I can’t achieve that not because I didn’t want to but because I chose something else. This is where people judge and use psychological reasonings. There is no right and no wrong on how you see it. This is simply me and what I see.

I would be happy living off of a job I enjoy. I would be happy with the drive to and from work everyday. I would make sure that the driving distance is not too long and too short. I love driving with the windows down and wind blowing my cheeks. When I get older this might change. I would be happy living with just having enough money to buy sweets on the side for my cravings. I would enjoy life as it is. Simple as I want it to be.

I won’t settle for less than I deserve. I will work hard for my way of simplicity. I may not drive a fast fancy car but that’s oKay. I rather admire the beauty and cherish it than own it.

Ultimately if you are happy where you are at, then that’s all that matters. If you are miserable with how it is then do something to get out of it.

Everyone’s simplicity is different. Everyone’s wants and needs are different. If my blog gets no views that’s fine with me. Only I can see my progress from scratch and that is something I can be proud of.

Imagine yourself 5 to 10 years from now. Where will you be? I know where I will be. I’ll be living my vision of simplicity.

Who knows I’m always learning and always pouring myself with new things around me. Maybe my vision of simplicity will change.

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Need a laugh? Do this.

Maybe this is too personal but what the hey! The other day in the shower I was scrubbing the bottom of my foot with a bar of soap, to my amazement I was very ticklish there. I normally rub one foot on top of the other to clean my soles but I decided to take them head on that night. I was giggling in an odd way which is was weird. I did the same on the other side and same results. I discovered that my left foot is more sensitive than my right foot. So…

If you ever find yourself in a position where you just need a good laugh and you happen to be in the shower, do this. Take a bar of soap and rub it on the bottom of you foot. Then do it to other side and figure out which one is more sensitive. Laugh your heart out until you can smile genuinely again. Breathe and remember the positive and do not stress on the negative. You got this.
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HOW TO HAVE A BETTER DAY BY DOING THIS 1 TIP, NO IT IS NOT COFFEE.

The law of attraction basically states, whatever we think will become our reality. For instance if you can see yourself happy then that will put you in the state where you are already happy and then it comes alive. If the opposite,  same results.

We do not always wake up on the right side of the bed. Sleepless nights, tossing and turning, having cheating girlfriends or boyfriends in our dreams equals waking up pretty upset. Then we allow ourselves to take it with us through the day. Someone will becoming annoying even if they are not. Because in your mind set you have already decided that you started out with a not so good morning now it will be a not so good day.  A word to the wise, there is a way to always have a good day.

Try this suggestion and do not just do it for one day. Do it everyday. I challenge you to. It is super simple and super easy plus it is free. You ready for it? This is what I want you to do.

  1. Get a sticky note or a piece of paper where you can write on.
  2. Write, ” Start each day with a thankful heart.”
  3. Stick it where you can see it every morning.
  4. Do it, then repeat.

A thankful heart; for everything that you already have, for where you are in life  right this minute, you are thankful for them all. (Saying it out loud is also a plus). Your attitude and  view on life will change.

Thanksgiving is just around the corner. This time of year we tell others what we are thankful for and so on. Why wait once a year? Start everyday with a thankful heart. Generate that positive vibrance, let it spread and attract more positivity into your life. It is not hard to do. I can do it, and if you have read my previous blogs it is hard. Therefore you can do it too. (Smiley Face). You got this. (High Five)

“I am thankful for everything I am and for everything I have. I accept and will embrace life.” 

 

Have an amazing like a unicorn day.

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When You Do Not Know What To Do Next, Do These 3 Things.

 

Ever feel like there is no hope? Like you will not have enough money to pay for your bills next month?

*Raises hand* Yes, this is me again. 

You do not know me and I do not know you other than what we put on the internet so what the heck. It’s not like you will ever knock on my door or walk up to me and say, “Hey your Kay right? I read your blog and this is my opinion.”  The chances of that will be microscopic. So again, what the heck!

I am crashing and burning. Not literally but you know what I mean. I do not know how I am going to pay for my bills next month. I have calculated how much I need to have in order to pay everything and my day job pay check is not going to cut it. So heck yes I am stressing as F***K!  Here I thought I was going to make enough money just so I can get by. Plan was to keep working a 9 to 5 job and blog on the side to make money. It is not easy. Via the internet you only get to see the glory and success, not the struggle. So what am I going to do?

  1. Keep working at my 9 to 5 job and try to find another job. If you have a job and your in money problems, do not quit your job. Just because the next month looks super gloomy. I am not going to quit! I refuse to quit. I will keep working, keep blogging, keep trying to find other methods to pay my bills. Maybe I will start selling my gently worn clothes? Teach someone  how to read prescriptions written by doctors? Who knows? I also like taking photos, maybe I will sell them too. Bottom line; do not give up just because it seems hopeless. 
  2. Keep waking up early at 5am. It only takes 21 days to make a habit stay. It’s been 6 days since I started this challenge for myself. We always say there is not enough time in the day to do everything. Well then why not wake up earlier? So i’ve been tracking my daily challenge on instagram . It’s always nice to have someone to do it with; keeps you motivated. (Jordan). Waking up early gives me more time to blog. Every like, every follower, everything little counts and matters to me. Thank you to mzukowskiblog for liking and being my first follower. It really means a lot to me.  Bottom line; Wake up earlier. If you already do then great! Give yourself more time to hustle for your success. 

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3. Do not be a PEST-IT-MESSER (pessimist); me, when I am negative. It’s Saturday! I can simply stay home, cry and throw a tantrum because life is hard. No. The weather is 63 degrees and I live right by a park, which requires a fee to get in, I can simply walk in (hahaha evil laugh). I am going to enjoy this beautiful day and keep going after my goals even though everything is tumbling downward. Hard work pays  off for those who work hard for it. I know this blogging business wont happen over night. I have wholly accepted the fact that it may not even bring me anything other than the joy of putting my stuff out there and that is enough. I simply want to share my experience with those out there and maybe someone will gain something from it, even if they do not remember my blog name.

“However bad life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at.           Where there’s life, there’s hope.”- Stephen Hawking
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I will keep you posted internet. If  I am blogging from Starbucks wi-fi I will definitely share my experience with you. If you are reading this and you have an idea of how I can make  an extra income, feel free to comment below. I would love to hear them! Have an amazing day like a unicorn! (unicorn emoji)

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